AS I HAVE LOOKED BACK ON MY CHILDHOOD, I MUST REMEMBER TO PRAY FOR WISDOM TO SEE HIDDEN STUFF FROM MY CHILDHOOD THAT I HAVE NOT SEEN.THE MORE DYSFUNCTIONAL MY FAMILY IS. THE MORE DIFFICULT IT WILL BE FOR ME TO REMEMBER THE WHOLE PICTURE. I REMEMBER ALWAYS BEING TOLD THAT "GOOD" CHILDREN ONLY REMEMBER THE HAPPY TIME."
DENIAL IS WHAT FAMILY MEMBERS WANTED , MOVE ON DON'T DEAL WITH YOUR CHILDHOOD IT DOES NOT MATTER, FIRST OF ALL DENIAL KEEPS ME STUCK IN MY CHILDHOOD.
VERBAL ABUSE HAS A GREAT AFFECT ON ANYONE ON THE RECEIVING END OF IT. PHYSICAL ABUSE . A CHILD RECEIVES ALL PARENTAL ACTIONS AND ATTITUDES AS A MESSAGES ABOUT THE CHILD'S IDENTITY, THE MESSAGE CONVEYS: "YOU ARE A WORTHLESS CHILD WHO DESERVES THIS TREATMENT BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT VALUABLE. AS A RESULT CHILDREN CAN CARRY DYSFUNCTIONAL , CODEPENDENT SCARS INTO THEIR ADULT LIVES THAT NEED TO BE DEALT WITH.
