FOR ME TO DEAL WITH MY CHILDHOOD IS TO UNDERSTANDING MY "CHILDHOOD." UNDERSTANDING THE ENVIRONMENT AND HOW IT HAS INFLUENCES ME TODAY AS I SEE IT THROUGH MY ADULT EYES, BUT SEEING IT THROUGH THE EYES OF A CHILD,
A FRIGHTENED CHILD, CONFUSED AND MAYBE ABUSED , (VERBAL) WHATEVER THE CASE IS. BECOMING A CHILD THAT GROWS UP WITH DISTORTED THINKING, DISTORTED VIEW OF REALITY. ONE NEEDS WISDOM TO SEE THE TRUE PERSPECTIVE ON THE PAST AND PRESENT SO THAT I CAN CHANGE MY FUTURE, GET THE DISTORTED THINKING OUT OF MY HEAD. CHANGE THE WAY I THINK. IT'S HARD AT TIMES TO RECOGNIZE THOSE THINGS FROM CHILDHOOD THAT CAN INTERFERE WITH THE PROCESS OF "REBUILDING," WHICH BRINGS CHANGE, GETTING UNSTUCK AND MOVING FORWARD FROM CHILDHOOD. OUR CHILDHOOD PAST CAN INFLUENCE THE PRESENT IF NOT DEALT WITH. AS A CHILD IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY, I HAD NO WAY OF KNOWING THE CHAOS GOING ON AROUND ME. SO HOW COULD I HAVE KNOWN THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN WHAT IS FUNCTIONAL AND DYSFUNCTIONAL! FAMILIES THAT ARE FUNCTIONAL ARE NOT PROBLEM FREE , BUT THEY HANDLE THE PROBLEMS AS THEY COME, THEY DEAL WITH "SOLVING THEIR PROBLEMS. "
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